When God called me overseas, I had no idea how much time I’d spend cooking, cleaning, home schooling, playing games, and driving kids to sports practice. Just as if I were still back home in America. I even asked myself, “Why am I here, anyway? I can mop floors and teach reading back home.”
I had no idea that when I led a women’s study group, I’d feel bad about leaving my kids home with my husband, and when I spent days on end caring for a sick child without leaving the house, I’d feel vaguely guilty for neglecting my “ministry” responsibilities.
Years ago I asked a more experienced woman, “How do you manage to have a ministry outside of your home?”
Her answer flabbergasted me.Visit A Cross-Cultural Mom's Companion to read the rest of this post.
4 comments:
Wow, can I relate to this?! I so know that "vague guilt" that lingers on both sides of the equation. Thank you for your insight...and the wonderful quotes from other women in our shoes. So good to process.
I think the guilt is almost the worst part! I want to let God free me of that as I follow His leading day to day!
Olive, this article was absolutely excellent. thought-provoking, insightful, thoughtful. i don't think i'll ever regret the time i've spent investing in the lives of my family. you are a woman with a gift - i'm pretty sure you should write a book. thanks for sharing your gift with us here! :)
Thanks so much for the encouragement, Barbara! I do dream of writing a book, but don't know when I will.
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